I don't want this article to be perceived as clickbait but it's really the truth. I can
tell you what RS Gold everybody is thinking "this loser plays all day long and his wife has
left him" or the "relationships have XP value" but it was a serious decision I was able
to take because OSRS helped me recognize how depressing my marriage was becoming and
how little appreciation I was given in the relationship.
For a little background: I am a 2k total main who doesn't play anything unusual, aside
from a couple of pvm with the occasional raids. I typically play about an hour or so on
weekdays but no more on weekends. The thing is, as I've grown more into late-game
games, the more of an effort I have to be able to play (read that I can play for longer
than 5 minutes straight without interruption). Since I don't have other hobbies,
friends social lives, etc. therefore, I thought that it was a big deal when I asked my
wife whether it was okay for me to take an hour or so during the night to play some
video games. Instead of saying outright that it was a problem for her, she replied
"yeah, that's okay" in that tinny tone meaning it was everything but acceptable. Now
instead of simply declaring that this is something that I enjoy and it's important to
me to take time to myself, I took a deep breath and moved to the next thing.
Flash forward to today and I am up two or three hours earlier each weekday to ensure
that I can get ready for work and also sneak in a quick swoop prior to starting the
day. It didn't bother my much since I'm more of a morning person. Now I'm finally
reaching a point in-game to begin the inferno cape grind and I'm excited about it. If I
attempt to talk about that to my wife, she is unable to comprehend and ignores it. Now
I don't expect her or even to be interested in my game or my performance, but it really
made me think about why she would never even claim to be interested in something that
meant a lot to me.
The realization caused me to examine everything else I have in my life and
relationship. Every time she was interested by something or wanted to try any other
thing, I'd do what I could to assist and encourage her. We would go hang out with her
friends anytime she wanted. We would attend any concert she wanted to go to we'd also
watch any programs she wanted on TV I'd plan our weekends around whatever she wanted
do. Today, when I ask her to just pretend to humor me I'm not even able to comprehend
the idea. I could go on and on but OSRS actually was the turning moment that forced me
to reassess our entire eight-year relationship.
You're probably wondering how the why I'm even bothering to write this. The reason is
that I don't have anyone to talk about this with. There are no people in my life and
have no time for socializing other than the work and home. It's not a reason to throw a
pity-party however I felt I had to let this be known and hope perhaps there's someone
out there who could use to hear this. Although this may be a stupid video game don't
sacrifice yourself or those things that make you feel content. It's not worth it.
In the beginning, I started playing OSRS my wife would not to let me play, realized
that she was controlling, and unhealthy the relationship was. Currently, we are meeting
with a lawyer about rs3 gp buy a divorce.
Lucyxingchen
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