A Nigerian relationship expert was in the news for writing a caption to his fiancee that started with ‘You are the most beautiful woman in the world’.To get more news about 日韩一级, you can visit our official website.

He is not the only one who has given such a backhanded compliment, a pastor once said his wife was not 'fine' when he met her.

Perhaps what they intended to say was beauty was not the criteria they used to choose a mate and they are committed to them beyond their physical appearance, but they should never have said that they do/did not rate their partner's attractiveness highly.Negging comes from the word negative feedback, and it aims at reducing a person's self-esteem through backhanded compliments.

An example of negging the writer of this article, a slim woman, has received is, “I usually like curvy thick girls, but I am attracted to you.” or “I didn’t like how you dressed until I saw you in that yellow shirt.” Negging is neither a compliment nor an insult.

His compliments embarrass you
A compliment is made to make you feel happy and more confident, but when you are being negged, you end up feeling more embarrassed whenever he compliments you.

His compliments involve comparison
“I met more beautiful women, but I chose you.” What this compliment does is elevate the man, feed his ego and demote the woman.

While it may be true that he might have met more attractive women, telling her only makes her feel bad about herself when compared to others.

He brushes it off or says he’s joking when accused of negging
Instead of accepting responsibility for what was said, and agreeing that it lacks emotional intelligence, they attempt to gaslight by saying, your interpretation of what they said is the problem or they were just joking.